مراقبت ابدی از سوی استادی راستین، قسمت ۹ از ۱۰

Since you have a husband, or wife, or new girlfriend or boyfriend, you have to treasure the person you have now. You have to discover his good qualities and treasure him more, love him more, and support him more. Then both of you will get to love each other more and more, and you’ll feel the present one is even better than the previous one. Because you did not take care of him, you did not water it, that’s why it cannot grow bigger, then you become more and more… you’ll compare and think, “The previous one is better.” The more you compare, the worse you feel; and the worse you feel, the more you compare; and the more you compare, the more you suffer, and then you’ll lose both of them. […] Sometimes we linger on because we’re far apart, so we tend to fancy that he is so good, so good, so good. But when you meet each other later, you find out about his personality and temper. […] Oh! And then, no more romance. […]

Sometimes we tend to think, having many girlfriends or boyfriends will make us happy, but you’re wrong! You don’t know what love is. When we love only one person devotedly, we’ll be really happy. Then when you’re happy, he will also be happy, and when you both are happy, you’ll be even happier with each other. Only then will you feel that this marriage is truly correct. If you don’t take care of it, then you’ll lose everything. If you get married with others afterwards, your mood will not be steady; your conscience will not forgive yourself, and you’ll feel frustrated about the new marriage, which will hurt that new person, it will not be good for both of you. When three people all feel frustrated, it’s nothing good. I tell you. Cut, cut, cut, cut, cut! And now, now, now! Forget about the past and also mind not about the future. […]